Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Returning to the Workforce

This very moment, even as I type these words, I am in a fierce search for a decent job. Before endometriosis really hit me hard, I worked as a lab researcher and was on my way into a promising career in medical science. However, life has a way of screwing up plans, and, for 1 1/2 years, everything I wanted was put on hold. I needed to reduce stress and I was forced to work a medial job at a farmers market. School was too intense, so I had to take a year off. All my extra-curricular activities (as a research assistant or volunteering in schools and hospitals) ceased. To any objective observer, I became a slacker. Unfortunately, there is no check box in an application that says, "I was struck by debilitating symptoms of endometriosis and had to take a temporary vacation from pursuing my goals."

For me, personally, there really is no good way to put in your resume that you are not responsible for a gap in your work history. If I did put that endometriosis disrupted my life, then employers would be less likely to hire me. Many employers do not even know what endometriosis is or, even worse, think it is a highly exaggerated disease. Beyond that, many do not understand that it operates on a spectrum and affects every woman differently. Not only would I be setting myself up as an excuse maker (and thus, unreliable), but they would also wonder when I would be 'struck by illness' again. So, my endometriosis is a secret, hidden in my work history, only revealed by a serious downgrade in activity and career choices.

The question remaining then is how in the world do I recover from the damage endometriosis did to my job opportunities? How does anyone recover? Let's be honest, endometriosis is not cheap--many endo-friends of mine are seriously struggling to keep their heads above the floods of medical bills that come with it. And it makes keeping a good job very difficult; having to take 1-2 extra sick days a month can really build up animosity in a work environment. So it makes it imperative to have a good job but also makes having a good job really difficult. Oh goody.

Well, here is my advice. It's the advice I am currently following and that I hope will yield up some decent results. And, of course, I'll update as soon as anything comes through. If anyone would like to add further commentary or suggestions, feel free to add at the bottom or email me.

  1. Create an impeccable resume. One that employers will remember and respect. CareerOneStop.org has a helpful resume guide that gives step-by-step instructions and advice on how to write this. Even if you already have a resume, you are always able to improve it. 
  2. Write a cover letter for every job. Even if they do not request one, even a short two-paragraph explanation for why you are applying for the job and why you are qualified can set you apart from other candidates. Additionally, it supports that any gaps were circumstantial and not due to 'laziness'. 
  3. Peruse multiple job boards. I've looked on sites from Craigslist to Indeed.com to CareerBuilder.com and etc. these weeks. Every site has different opportunities and different methods of browsing. You are more likely to find a job that fits if you are willing to explore various sources. 
  4. Find ways to keep a good attitude. One of the hardest parts of job exploration is the constant rejection and being ignored. Or, even harder, when you receive a response and you instantly realize someone is trying to scam you. Look at it as a frustrating experience that gives you the chance to learn and grow. Frustration occurs when you are blocked from a desired goal. The tension experienced is released when you can finally obtain that goal. So keep working hard to obtain it, look forward to that extreme satisfaction and relief when you finally reach what you are working for. It's a great feeling. 
  5. Apply in person whenever possible. Online applications are easy and convenient and do not really prove sincere interest. Often, these online job searches give addresses/locations of the company you are applying to. I advise you to print up your cover letter and resume on some professional quality paper and drop it off yourself (preferably, not in sweatpants). 
  6. If you need more education to further your career but do not have the medical health to attend full time school, consider night classes or home study. I am finishing my remaining courses via independent study. It is a great way to attain your education without endometriosis forcing you to drop out or something. 
This pretty much sums up what I've got for now. I need to prove to prospective employers that I am not lazy or unmotivated. My resume suggests otherwise, but it's not true. So right now, my only job is to make these people see that I am determined and hard working. Endometriosis does sometimes make me unreliable (I cannot help when a bad episode/flare up strikes), but it has also made me strong, conscientious, capable, and more productive when I am healthy (to make up for lost time). If people do not recognize the good qualities in an individual who has suffered from illness, then it is simply may job to make those qualities evident. 


  1. I know how you feel, I have lost many a job because of endometriosis. at first they didn't know what was wrong with me and it took the doctors 8 months to find out what was wrong. In the meantime, I couldn't work, was afraid to eat as everytime I ate something I was in agony. It was a female obgyn who finally discovered I had endometriosis and had 2 connecting cysts the size of 2 large eggs pressing against my ovaries. I have lost the use of 1 kidney as it had been covered all over by cysts and I also lost 1 ovary. I will never be a mum and that's what's hurting the most ... Thankfully the symptoms have been gone for a long time now but the pain of never having a child of my own will never go away :'(

    1. Being told that kids are a no go is an extremely painful thing to hear. I have not actually tried yet, and have only my doctors 'word' to go on, but it's a scary/saddening prospect. I'm grateful for opportunities to adopt and become a parent another way, but I know what you mean with wanting to produce the child yourself. Work is definitely hard with all this--getting them to understand that your are not a slacker/wimp/flake/etc. is very difficult. I'm constantly terrified that I'll be fired. I'm glad to hear you are feeling better, here's hopes that that trend continues!

  2. I have Endo, it took 28 yrs for me to get a diagnosis. I have a lot of issues with fatigue and was diagnosed with FMS/CFS prior to getting an Endo diagnosis. I had 3 large cysts 7-8 cm's on my ovaries and a frozen pelvis. I am childless and still suffering the effects of Endo at 52 yrs nearly 53 of age. I have been lucky as far as work is concerned as I worked in the Civil service and still retain these conditions even though our sector has been privatised.


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I want to be happy. And this site is about that chance. How to strive to thrive in the body I've got and maybe turn my experiences into something worthwhile.

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